Experience Deeper Pleasure and Connection

The Art Of Love & Sex Tantric Online Course

by International Spiritual Teacher, Bestselling Author,
Creator of Divine Openings, Lola Jones

One tuition is good for a Single person or a Couple!


Longing to...

~ Enjoy Sex as a Spiritual Path ~
~ Awaken your God & Goddess Within ~

The Art of Love and Sex
Tantric Online Retreat

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Enjoy a free video preview. Lola and Donna were giving a webinar on how business, money and sex are related and how we often use similar energies and approaches to both. Excuse the odd feedback noises we encountered on this webinar--you'll still get the vibe:

If you haven't made lovemaking and tantric sex an important part of your spiritual path, what are you waiting for? How would it feel if your spiritual journey was as juicy and satisfying as it was profoundly deep?
  • Deep within your DNA there is a higher spiritual purpose for sex. Discover it!
  • Making love can light both of you up, heal, and rejuvenate you.
  • Claim your feminine or masculine power fully.
  • Experience blissful and even ecstatic energy and profound love and connection rather than just rubbing bodies together.
  • Age, fitness level, looks, penis size and hardness, or vaginal size and tightness don't matter.
  • Erectile dysfunction or even physical disability are no longer an issue.
  • Because tantra doesn't need kinkiness or novelty to keep  things fresh--you don't get tired of your partner--ever! Your passionate love life actually grows deeper and more interesting as the years go by.

You and your partner will both LOVE it.
And many have attracted their ideal partner by enjoying and embodying the energies in this course.

Definition of tantric sex: Tantric sex uses energy as well as physical means to bring pleasure, love, presence, and deep lasting satisfaction to your sex life. It's not so much where we touch and what we do as how we do it, the energy and intentions behind it, and how present and sensitive we are. Tantric sex is truly enlightened sex. It's physical, but it's far more than physical.

This online course is tasteful, high vibration, deeply spiritual, direct, real, and practical. It covers both conventional sex and tantric sex. This entire course was updated and enriched mid-2015 as Lola and her partner dived more deeply into tantra. Contains many more session audios now.

Tantric expands your ecstasy, opens your heart, nourishes your spirit, fulfills, and thrills you beyond imagining. It bonds you and your lover ever more deeply as it accelerates your spiritual awakening and evolution.

"My sex life is now completely, amazingly better than before this course. It is astounding how much I opened up. I still haven't finished this course because there's so much in it, and it gets so intense I need to take a break to get ready to let more in. The most profound thing of many things I got is that "I create it, not the other person." The other person just has to be reasonably on my wavelength for it to be great." Kay, Texas
This Tantric online course exists in a powerful Divine Openings energy vortex that taps you into Tantric bliss. If you've experienced Divine Openings you know that we line up the non-physical energy, and physical manifestations follow. The Tantric energy in this retreat "works on you"--you don't work on IT. You play with it, enjoy it, savor it, and look forward to the next play session.
Many of you "regulars" have already experienced how Divine Openings catalyzed your spiritual enlightenment process without working on yourself, processing or analyzing. And for many of you Divine Openings already breathed new life into your relationships.
Well, get ready for more, much more. This course is long, thorough, and self-paced. We suggest doing it slooooowly, just like we suggest trying sex sloooooowly.

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Because Tantric sex is on the same vibration as Divine Openings, those of you who have experience with Divine Openings will feel the big rewards of tantric sex much faster. Here are just a few of the qualities that both Divine Openings and tantric sex share:
  • It's spiritual and physical bliss.
  • It's about love, presence, consciousness, awareness, and being... unlike conventional sex that is all about thinking, fantasy, action, and doing, doing, doing.
  • You sloooooow everything down, so you can feel more of the exquisite subtlety that moving too fast causes us to miss.
  • You're in the moment, feeling what's happening now, in a way you've never been before.
  • You relax more deeply than you knew was possible, and lose the sense of effort. (Effort is counterproductive.)
  • No seeking anything, no chasing orgasm, no goals, no rules, no routines--relax and enjoy the ride.
  • You let go to the flow rather than try to make anything happen.
  • The most blissful experiences are found deep in the quiet and stillness of the Void.
  • You get out of the way and let something larger than your mind take over, and dive deep into the ecstasy and wisdom of the body. Your body will surprise you with what it knows how to do once you get out of the way--exactly like Divine Openings surprised you when you got out of the way!

"I have been reading Lola's book, Things Are Going Great In My Absence now going on two years. It has helped me change life in a smooth, non- damaging way for all involved. I have had almost a year to myself and recently have been thinking "feeling" that I want to attract the other that is on a similar path as myself (unlike before!) Then I saw this online retreat!! Perfect~ of course~I am excited about it all. THANKS LOLA, I have never met anyone that carries the divine energies so strongly! I must say, some days my Large Self seems to spread out across the land! (smile)" Blessings, Christine in Oregon

"Namaste, I started taking Lola's self-paced, on-line course, "The Art of Love & Sex”, a few days ago and am just loving it!  I’ve thought of taking it off and on over the last few years and was finally ready to let it in... this is one of a number of other things in my life that I’ve been putting off for various reasons. Yipeeeee!!! Last night, I received my first Tantric Divine Opening from the course and fell blissfully asleep afterwards...  Today, I am feeling sooooo mellow -  relaxed, calm and peaceful as I go about my busy day, taking time to enjoy and savour everything I am doing.  I feel myself softening…and preparing to let in my Divine Tantric Partner who is the perfect vibrational match for me. Thank you, Lola and the entire Divine Openings Team for making these fabulous teachings and practises so easily available to all who are ready to receive them."   Much Love, Joy & Gratitude, Harmoney Laurence, Surrey, BC, Canada

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There are NO long, arduous practices or disciplined, boring exercises in our Tantric online course--there are hours of passion and ecstatic play for you to enjoy and savor. It works rapidly--as rapidly as you can allow it in. It even dissolves the limitations you've unconsciously put on how much pleasure it's OK to allow yourself.

As with Divine Openings, it's not "work" ~
you relax and enjoy.... more and more each week.

Tantric Online Course for Spiritual Enlightenment

The moment you register, you step into a powerful field of Tantric resonance that attunes you to the frequency of Tantric sexual bliss and love. It does a lot of the "work" for you. If you've experienced Divine Openings, you're already familiar with the transformations that occur just from being in the energy on this website.

Unless you've experienced Divine Openings, you may think we're making unrealistic claims. You'll just have to experience this energy for yourself. There are miraculous things happening increasingly on this planet, and Divine Openings is one of them.

The all-original art by Lola Jones is infused with powerful Tantric energy that awakens your deepest most authentic feminine or masculine self. Again, if you aren't familiar with Divine Openings, and haven't experienced this wonderful phenomenon already, you'll have to feel it to believe it.

Women, your man will have little or no resistance to a Tantric course like this, even if you couldn't ever drag him to a seminar before! Let him know you want to experience Tantric sex with him so the two of you can have more juicy fun together (that you're not trying to fix him, which you shouldn't be doing anyway!)

The privacy of enjoying this Tantric online course in your own home is a big plus. No embarrassing public nudity, no sharing private information.


Women, did you know ...?

Your business success may have made you more masculine than you realize, thus disturbed the natural sexual polarity between you and men, and so prevents you from attracting the type of man you deeply desire.

You can now easily learn how to switch on your feminine energy whenever you're with your man, and switch on your masculine energy at work. You CAN have it all.

Making love in the conventional way we've been taught to by media and society masculinizes a woman and destabilizes her emotions and hormones.

Rediscovering, restoring and recharging your feminine energy is the only thing that will ever completely fulfill you as a woman.

Men, did you know ...?

Your woman will want to have sex more often when you use these tantric secrets.

You can learn how to allow sexual energy to deeply recharge you and empower you out in the world rather than deplete you, even if you have sex twice a day.

Tantra will help you experience masculine power in a way that is unimaginably fulfilling, because no one has told you it can be this good.


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Your partner (male or female) already responds to your energy--and always has. So as your energy shifts, your partner is subtly transformed even if you do this Tantric sex online retreat course without them at first. Or you will attract a partner who is on the Tantric sex wavelength with you, by Law Of Attraction. This Divine Openings Tantric energy is that powerful, and so are you.

Here's a note from a woman whose husband transformed when she first experienced Divine Openings, then amped up again with this course:

"After doing Divine Openings I didn't think our relationship could get better but after buying your tantra course, 3 weeks later ... the bedroom heated up even more." D. Ledesma. Stockton, CA

What's ahead for you as you simply enjoy this online Tantric course:

  • Sex becomes a key part of your spiritual path. It may become your favorite part!
  • A whole new level of initiation into total spiritual awakening.
  • Sex that's beyond the body, but fully grounded in the body.
  • Cultivate a type of sex that can get better and better your whole life, even into old age.
  • Experience Tantric orgasmic stillness, bliss without doing.
  • Learn about and enjoy both "cool sex" and "hot sex" ... "tantric sex" and "traditional sex."
  • Tantric lovemaking becomes a deep meditation, taking you within yourself, but you're more present with your partner than ever before, more "one."
  • Light up and energize not only your love life, but your entire practical daily life. People will ask you, "What's up with YOU?"
  • Become aware of dynamics that are either juicing up or damping down your sex life.
  • Cosmic Tantric sex -- mindless states and oneness with your beloved.
  • Many types of orgasms, and beyond orgasm.
  • Ways for men to control and extend their orgasm without drugs.
  • Multiple orgasm for women and men.
  • Female water flow, amrita, the waterfall, or "dolphin water".
  • Extend pleasure both before, during, and after orgasms.
  • Tantric extended full body orgasm for both men and women.

What if you could....?

  • Men: get past impotence, erectile dysfunction, performance pressure.
  • Women: get over shame, rape, history, any issue. Tantra actually heals sexual pain and abuse.
  • All gender orientations: have deeply satisfying tantric sex.
  • Singles: attract your ideal Divine Tantric partner without effort, as you prepare yourself.
  • Open the heart to more love.
  • Experience Heaven on Earth through Tantric sexual union.
  • Move into being rather than doing in Tantric lovemaking.
  • Shift from the goal and performance orientation of traditional sex.
  • Let sexual ecstasy become easy and effortless.
  • Grow your love with tantra.
  • Remove the limits you've placed on how much pleasure you are allowed to experience.
  • Expand intimacy naturally with tantra, helping you transcend the limiting boundaries of your skin.
  • Develop a Feedback Loop to be a spectacularly tuned in Tantric lover.
  • Circulate energy in a way that creates passion, love, and ecstasy.
  • Communicate better with your partner, in and out of the bedroom.
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Your love life will light up when you understand...

  • Classic masculine and feminine dynamics, and when and how to play in them to keep love alive. How to use them to heighten your Tantric sex and love experience.
  • How sex and money are related energies--why your man makes more money when his sexual energy is on at full power, and your woman needs to get in her feminine after work.
  • Feel your body more, intensify your sensations.
  • Tune into your lover quickly and easily.
  • Communicate your desires and dislikes in a way that works.
  • Erotic Tantric massage for men and women.
  • How to let go of old conditioning about sex ( from porn, peers, parents, media).
  • How to hold your center so you don't become too enmeshed or dependent.
  • Sex talk that enhances your Tantric lovemaking.
  • How every person is different, and how to find their unique wants, styles, needs, and hot buttons.
  • Your partner's primary and secondary love senses, and what are yours.
  • Chanting or toning for ecstatic Tantric states.
  • Use music to deepen your ecstasy.
  • The beauty of age, and yet you'll sometimes see your lover morph into a teenager.
  • The power and importance of self-love and self-validation and how to gain it.
  • The art of self-pleasuring for its own sake and as a means to enhance Tantric lovemaking with your Beloved.
  • How to be sexily selfish.
  • How to do a lap dance or exotic seduction.
  • Understanding and using lubrication, natural and otherwise.
  • Knowing God through Tantric sex. Use sex to tap into source.
  • Sexual communion as your "church," your devotion, your ritual.
  • Worshiping the Goddess in her.
  • Adoring the God in him.
  • Rituals and Tantric activities that range from the sublime to the silly and everything in between.
  • Connecting sexually with only energy and intention, even at long distances.
  • Ebb and flow of sexual desire, and how to deal with it.
  • Dealing with "issues" that do come up.
  • How to be done with "issues" so your sex life becomes pure play, pleasure, connection, and Tantric creative self expression.
  • Reigniting sexuality and rejuvenating a relationship.
  • We continually add things to the course.
This course is non-pornographic. That is, there are no videos of people having sex--this course does it with graphics, text, audios, and ENERGY, and you do the rest! You'll get all the know-how you need.

With Divine Openings, the spiritual awakenings happened for most people relatively fast, so I asked myself what was next. I quickly saw a need to shift the focus from seeking to living, because their seeking was over so fast!
My job then became the blessed one of offering new and exciting ways to enjoy this expanded life once spiritual awakening and enlightenment was well underway. What fun! After Divine Openings Level 1, I developed the Level 2 Online Course, which is all about joy and pure expansion. Then on to Jumping The Matrix, which is about creating beyond normal reality.

Then I created this Tantra online course, purely for fun and creative expression. I already had vast experience with people feeling the effects of Divine Openings energies from long distances, independent of space or time, and getting massive life transformation just from taking my online courses, without ever seeing me or talking to me. Things Are Going Great In My Absence indeed!

So I use that same principle in this Tantric online course--I've embedded powerful spiritual and Tantric energies and intentions into this Tantra online course too. Due to my intense focus on Tantra, I am so powerfully radiating these Tantric energies these days that after my 5 Day Silent Retreats, which have nothing to do with sex and never even mention sex, participants are going home to find their previously stale marriages have blossomed, and they're making juicy Tantric love, and single people are attracting juicy new loves.


After enlightenment, what do you do?
You find juicy new ways to enjoy life!

Many of you who've already read Things Are Going Great In My Absence, and have done some Divine Openings are now "beyond issues, problems, and suffering" and have a big head start on having a fantastic Tantric experience through this online course. Divine Openings has prepared you (or will prepare you as you read the book) to get the benefit of this Tantric online course very quickly, to dive in and enjoy it, and to let go and live it in a way that might be challenging for others without the Grace of Divine Openings. Read that book and get that advantage for yourself.

If there are still some issues that need addressing with your partner, in you, or in your dating life, or lack of dates, don't worry, reading or rereading Things Are Going Great In My Absence will continue to help you resolve any remaining issues in your relationship, as you take this course. This retreat begins with how you relate and talk outside the bedroom, because that affects how much joy and pleasure you experience in the bedroom.

So here we go! If you know me from Divine Openings, you know this won't be dry Tantric techniques and theories. It will be practical, juicy, and alive with Tantric energy you can feel coming off the computer screen and coursing through your body.

Yes, there are unique Tantric energy frequencies embedded in these pages and in the art. They do 90% of the work for you. Just soak it up. This is ecstatic Tantric play, not work, the homework will be the most fun you've ever had, and the experiences will be the deepest you've ever dived into. We'll give you things you can do here and now, and that work. You'll experience Divinity in this body, through this body, and through your partner.

This scene is from my living room, which is set up a lot like a very comfortable, sensual, livable temple. Find ways to make your environment more sensual to match your new intentions.

In college art school I was inspired by artists and musicians to live life as if it were art. It encompasses work, creativity, food, travel, play, how we dress, our self expression, our home spaces, how we live our days, as well as lovemaking. I am not content to simply trudge through life on the beaten path, but prefer to make each slice of it as rich, fulfilling, and exciting as possible.

Tantric sex makes lovemaking as conscious, deep, sensual, intense, loving, caring, appreciative, magical, and ecstatic as possible, whether it's simple and spontaneous, or planned and ritualistic. It's the antithesis of routine, unconscious, unimaginative sex. It's beyond just mechanically doing what the animals do, although there's certainly room for that too. Sex can be so much more.

You don't have to try anything you don't feel comfortable with or wouldn't enjoy. But sometimes you don't know till you try! Let your own experience be your teacher, rather than taking our word for it.

You'll begin with easy things, like this most basic element of Tantra--synchronizing your breathing as you sit in this powerful field of resonance and let it lift you up. It's that easy.

Tantric sex makes shows us that sexuality can be a profoundly expansive part of our lives that deserves as much careful attention as any other special endeavor. The goal of Tantric sex is communion with your lover in Divinely inspired ways. For many, Tantra is the truest and most blissful path to the Divine.

Forget the other definitions of Tantra you might already know for the purposes of this retreat. And we won't force our definition on you. There are more definitions and systems of Tantra out there than you can count, they're all valid, and this is different. Some systems are religious, some are esoteric and complicated, some are weird. As everything I create is unique, so is this course. As you would expect from us, it is grounded and practical, and yet deep, mystical, and profound. It is explicit, yet tasteful in the presentation, allowing you privacy in your intimacy.


Tantric sex with Divine Openings
is sexual bliss and Divine ecstasy.

Wikipedia says, "Despite reluctance to support a rigorous definition of Tantra, David Gordon White offers the following definition: Tantra is that Asian body of beliefs and practices which, working from the principle that the universe we experience is nothing other than the concrete manifestation of the divine energy of the Godhead that creates and maintains that universe, seeks to ritually appropriate and channel that energy, within the human microcosm, in creative and emancipatory ways."

Let us say in our down-to-earth-way that this Divine Openings interpretation of Tantric sex will blow the top of your head off, and you just might later find your socks in the backyard.

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