Master the Power of Yes!
When I'm working with my assistant we laugh and talk... and get a lot of work done!
We just say YES to everything. I say it out loud. If I'm mad I say YES to it. If I'm anxious, scared, or sad I say YES to it. If I can't sleep I say YES to it (pump your fist to emphasize the power of YES.) I don't fight it or resist it, and things shift really fast. It's a lot like the Diving In process, but shorter! It's brilliant.
If you've at least read the book you can begin to pull off what we're saying. Knowing something and being able to do it are two different things, and reading the book gives you the Grace boost and takes you through the experiences and the opening of the pipes to be able to do things you simply couldn't do before. If you've read it five times, read it again--you'll get better every time. We promise. It works on you.
When I was selling a house in Texas and buying one in California, YES was helpful in the house sale negotiations too. I never said, "NO, I won't do that" when someone made an offer. Thta creates a dead end and fosters conflict. I'd say, "I can do this....." The first offer one couple made was so ridiculously low, my first thought was, "NO %@#&*# WAY!!!" but by acting from my Large Self at each step, and making a game out of never saying no, I never said no one time throughout the extensive successful negotiations. I've stayed can-do focused, and always said, "I'm happy to give this," or "YES, I know you want a really great deal, and let's make this a win/win for both of us."
Try saying YES to your teens, your boss,
your lover, your neighbor.
YES, I hear how you feel.
YES, I get what you want.
YES, I see your point of view.
YES, I want to work this out.
YES, something is possible.
Saying YES and meaning it creates chemical changes in your body that promote cooperation rather than conflict--ease rather than resistance.
Be a YES in your life.
It works on you as well as other people, and the world.
Don't miss Lola's new Live Webinar Series!
Live Webinar Details Here
Lola's guest for the webinar above is Jill Cooper is the editor of THE YES BOOK, an amazing anthology of award-winning authors writing about the power of the word YES.
If you missed this webinar in Dec, 2014, you can see the video of it if you're enrolled in Level 2 Online. And you can order the YES Book from Exult.com.
Here's a short excerpt from THE YES BOOK, written by Donna Wetterstrand:
".....There's a truly magical spot on (our) Instrument Panels. To me it is almost alchemical in its mysterious power to shift "no" to "yes," and it shows up right in the middle of that range of emotions: it's called peaceful acceptance. Peaceful acceptance is the hero of human evolution because it beautifully softens the resistance of "no" and then quietly, gradually transforms it to "yes" in a way that sticks."
- Most people start with the Level One Online course with book
- The BOOK - The foundational spiritual awakening book, Things Are Going Great In My Absence, is a great, easy way to begin.
- Others want more support and a big, powerful launch, so they come to a live spiritual retreat
- At-home study is easy with our many online retreat courses course with its many audios and videos of Lola teaching
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