Dating to change your life

You'll find information in this book you quite simply won't see anywhere else.

Lola Jones has studied with relationship experts, and has become one herself. She has lectured, coached, and inspired thousands of people in business and in their personal lives, and helped them to have more fulfilling lives. Lola found that dating is a prime opportunity to grow and expand yourself, over and above the opportunity to find your love.

This book shows you how to enjoy being single more, as well as how to find your love, because happy people find healthier relationships, and they last longer. When you show up happier, more complete --- your chances of lasting love increase.

YOU'LL LEARN:

• The top 10 mistakes... and how to avoid them
• 30 ways to succeed at dating
• Timing for sex while dating
• Practical information on compatibility
• A system that virtually eliminates bad matches
• A guide to savoring every moment of courtship

A Personal Note from author Lola Jones

After years of relationships with charming (or not-so-charming) Mr. Wrongs, I decided something had to change. At first, I said the heck with it and started spending my weekends with my horse and my good friends. 

Then I committed to learning how to make better choices, and started dating in a whole new way. Then I realized I had a book to write. People loved it.

If I do say so myself, this book is practical, wise, heartfelt, down-to-earth ... also funny and no-holds-barred. It still makes me laugh when I read it. It gives you all the secrets I eventually (happy, tired sigh) discovered about dating and relationships, and shares stories about how others found their match, online and elsewhere. 

The transformation you'll undergo is much bigger than just your dating life. You'll change from the inside out, and then you'll see your dating luck changing. You'll build your  self-confidence, gain savvy, have more fun and humor in your daily life, and gain a certainty that everything is happening in perfect timing.

I'll show you how to set clear (not mixed) intentions and take specific steps to success.

You'll wise up without getting cynical, and read people like a book. You'll value yourself more, and have way more fun at dating after reading this book. You'll handle the frustrations almost everyone encounters with dating with more ease. You can read it in a couple hours or savor it in several sittings, and start succeeding your first day.

People come to events and introduce me to the mates they met after reading this book!

OK, it's time to get started. Ms. or Mr. Right doesn't have all day, ya know.

No More Rejection
You will never feel rejected again once you learn this one amazing secret. This one chapter alone will change your life, and will serve you in other areas of your life.

No More Mystery
Now you'll finally "get" how it works, and why. You'll soon be clear about who that other person really is, rather than getting caught up in illusions that disappoint you later.

No More Settling For Less Than You Want
You'll learn to value yourself so much that you become a magnet for good matches. This is the key to finding "a good one."

Dating Is Supposed To Be FUN!
I know... I hated it too, before I made my big change and learned to LOVE it, and do it well! Find out how to make dating so much fun that you'll forget to stress out about finding your soul mate. Then they'll find you. Dating became more fun than I'd ever had in my life. 

You'll have more fun too after you read this book. I share with you all the secrets of dating -- everything you need to know but were never taught. 

It answers all the big questions:
What's the protocol? Fast or slow?  How to read people. Why do you meet the ones you do? Why does it turn out the way it does? How do you meet, get to know, choose, and keep a partner? If you don't like your romantic past, how do you change it?

Learn "How To Date" Online and Offline
It's a skill you learn, like any skill. I didn't meet my soulmate online, but online dating was my "education" in dating. It got me ready to meet the ONE. It upgraded the quality of men I was daating, and increased my confidence as I got more selective. I got clear on exactly who and what I was looking for.

I show you step by step how to get there, and how to have more fun doing it.Get the know-how to handle the online and in person encounters with aplomb and humor. Successfull people who don't meet enough people in their daily routines (that was me, working at home) are finding the internet to be the place to meet their single peers.

It's the best, if you know how to do it.

"Gives some direction during dating - allowing for a more spiritual and intellectual foundation for a possible connection. I am one year out of a 38 yr. marriage - for someone like me this reading is helpful - to be witness to someone that has been there, and getting the perspective from a woman's view is beneficial." Dan F., investor

"It's super-condensed wisdom, and it applies to other areas of life too." Bob D, singer/songwriter

"Hi Lola, Got the book...read it last nite...yes, its interesting, instructive and provocative, prescriptive, and importantly, authentic. I was expecting it to be heavily slanted to analysis and was pleasantly surprised at the how to's, which were practical and interesting." Ed

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