Pictured: Lola and her love Scott with a grandbaby.
This Couples Retreat Renews Love
Without Confrontation or Processing
Why muck through all your painful issues when you can bring back that lovin' feelin' without heavy emotional work?
Are you just plain tired of "working at it," having relationship talks, or fighting?
Are you discouraged by the slow progress with old-school couples talk-therapy?
Want to make your old relationship great again, or start off your new relationship right?
You might wonder "How can it be possible to have a profound renewal in our stale relationship without long, hard, confrontational therapy?"
"How can we clear up all these issues without hashing them out?"
"Everyone says relationships require hard work."
In this retreat, as you each go deep into yourselves, and don't talk to each other at all, miracles happen.
Hashing out your "issues"
all the time can actually
Hard work and lots of talk talk talk is the old paradigm.
Whoever said hard work is necessary certainly doesn't know about Divine Openings and Divine Openings retreats.
This is the new paradigm.
Someone sold you the idea that a successsful relationship takes lots of work because they don't know an easier way.
Women, men, you want what you want.
And we want you to have it!
Now, would you like to know how to get it?
Men particularly hate "relationship talks." If he goes into fight or flight response he literally cannot hear you.
But all that changes when approached the right way, a way he can relate to, a way that doesn't make him feel bad at all. His natural instincts, to want the relationship to feel good, are RIGHT ON!
How much happier would your husband or boyfriend be
to attend a vacation-like week of low pressure relaxation...
than to a marriage therapy intensive with
If you saw the movie Hope Springs, with Meryl Streep and Tommy Lee Jones, it's nothing like that at all! It's not uncomfortable or embarrassing, and you don't bare your soul to the group at all.
Your privacy is assured. You don't tell the group anything.
Just because your friend or therapist or some expert somewhere said a good relationship isn't easy...
You don't have to buy that dismal old paradigm.
Is it really possible to have a great relationship without constant work?
YES! It actually gets easier and faster
when you take the "hard work"
out of it.
It IS possible to bring back that loving feeling you once had.
Or have it be even stronger than ever before.
Our non-confrontational, pleasurable methods
are far more effective than old-school,
long-term, never-ending, couples therapy.
Much faster too.
It happens in five days without talking to each other at all.
I know, surprising. But it's true.
We give you online support afterward so you can keep deepening your relationship joy (not working on it.)
Just get here, enjoy, and be willing.
Relationships are supposed to be fun,
NOT endless work.
Joachim and Michaela from Germany sent us
this picture many months after their retreat,
where their relationship "came alive again."
It even brings out the "sexy you" that might have gotten lost somewhere in all the money and family stresses.
Divine Openings retreats relieve you of relationship, money, and family stress as they gently and easily rejuvenate you, open you, and soften you--each of you individually.
Joy bubbles up from within each of you--and that spills over into your relationship. When you come back together after the retreat, love and desire re-emerge naturally, communication blossoms, and the hard work is gone.
We're conditioned to believe that nothing can be that easy.
But it can be.
We see it all the time!
It's more aha's and laughter than tears, and most of the tears shed are sweet release, or joyful, grateful tears.
The retreats work for couples. They may arrive angry and fighting, or cold and distant, and they leave smiling--in love again--and excited about their future.
Makes a great second honeymoon, and it certainly is more guaranteed to last than a normal vacation, no matter how exotic or expensive.
We hear from our retreaters for years afterward as the results unfold and grow over time.
One couple mutually decided to end their relationship with love and joy! Another couple with a 20 year age difference stopped fighting and had a baby.
You can also get great relationship results even if only one of you attends the retreat. Once the other spouse sees the results afterward, they often sign up for the next retreat anyway.
Or you can both come, leave on the same wavelength, and get faster results
It saves relationships, renews marriages, or makes "okay" couples very happy.
Okay, here's how it works....
The couples discounted tuition for couples is given in Europe only (married or not.)
California is an intimate venue at Lola's home, with limited space, so all California retreats are full price for everyone. No worries--no one complains about the value. If you can't afford to come together, pick one of you to attend first.
Now that you know our retreats work for couples, learn more about the retreats in general.
See our gorgeous retreat centers in California and Europe, held in Germany.
Customer Service and Questions:
Email: firstname.lastname@example.org for English speakers
NEW! We're here by phone to answer your questions about courses and retreats. Call Lola's assistant, Cara, at 1-805-755-6591. If you're international, leave a message and she will return your call. If you have a MagicJack phone, your call is toll free!