The Art Of Love And Sex
Tantric Online Course
The juicier side of Divine Openings
by Spiritual Teacher Lola Jones,
creator of Divine Openings
Do you want more than just an okay love life?
Would you like a Tantric online course that's private, tasteful, high vibration, deeply spiritual, yet direct, real, and practical?
Have you longed for cosmic spiritual sex? Tantric lovemaking that curls your toes and opens your heart; nourishes your spirit and fulfills and thrills you beyond imagining; bonds you and your lover ever more deeply and accelerates your spiritual awakening and evolution?
This Tantra online retreat course was created just for you.
you might want to listen to these song samples as you read.
there are no austere practices that
take a long time to master,
or exercises that require discipline.
It's play and enjoyment.
The moment you register, you step into a powerful field of Tantric resonance that attunes you to the frequency of Tantric sexual bliss and love. It does a lot of the "work" for you. If you've experienced Divine Openings, you're already familiar with the transformations that occur just from being in the energy on this site. If you haven't yet experienced Divine Openings you may think we're making unrealistic claims. You'll just have to experience our Divine Openings type of Tantra energy for yourself. There are miraculous things happening increasingly on this planet, and Divine Openings is one of them.
The all-original art by teacher, author, artist, singer Lola Jones is infused with powerful Tantric energies. Again, if you aren't familiar with Divine Openings, and haven't experienced this wonderful phenomenon already, you'll have to feel it to believe it.
Women, your man will have little or no resistance to a Tantric course like this, even if you couldn't drag him to any other seminar before! Let him know you want to experience Tantra with him to have more juicy fun together (that you're not trying to fix him, which you shouldn't be doing anyway!) The privacy of enjoying this Tantric online course in your own home is a big plus. No embarrassing public nudity, revealing private information, no weirdos or weirdness.
Your partner (male or female) responds to shifts in you, and transforms even if you do the Tantra online retreat course without them. Or you will attract a partner who is on the Tantric wavelength with you, due to Law Of Attraction. This Divine Openings Tantric energy is that powerful, and so are you. Here's a note from a woman whose husband transformed when she did Divine Openings:
Some of what's ahead for you as you simply enjoy this online Tantric course:
- A whole new level of initiation into total spiritual awakening and Tantric sexual enjoyment.
- How to communicate with your partner, in and out of the bedroom, in a way that enhances your practical daily life and your Tantric sex life.
- If you're single, discover ways to attract your ideal partner without effort.
- Prepare yourself to attract that Divine Tantric partner.
- Become aware of dynamics that are either juicing up or damping your sex life.
- Sex and money and how they're related.
- Women, how and why your man makes more money when his sexual energy is on at full power.
- Experience Heaven on Earth through Tantric sexual union.
- Sexual ecstasy becomes easy and effortless through Divine Grace.
- Remove the limits you've placed on how much pleasure you are allowed to experience.
- Intimacy; transcend the limiting boundaries of your skin.
- Applying Law of Attraction to your love life.
- Masculine and feminine dynamics, and how to play in them without being stuck in either one exclusively.
- Classic elements of masculine and feminine and how to use them to heighten your Tantric sex and love experience.
- Cosmic Tantric sex, achieving mindless states and oneness.
- Types of orgasms, Tantric orgasm, and beyond orgasm.
- Ways for men to control and extend their orgasm without drugs.
- Multi-O for women.
- Female water flow, amrita, the waterfall, or "dolphin water".
- Extending pleasure both before and after orgasms.
- Tantric extended orgasm for both men and women.
- Feel your body more, and intensify your sensations.
- How to tune into your lover very quickly and easily.
- How to communicate your desires and dislikes.
- How to let go and ride Tantric energy waves.
- Erotic Tantric massage for men and women.
- How the way you learned about sexuality (porn, peers, parents, media) might have conditioned you in ways that limit you, and what to do.
- Moving into being rather than doing in Tantric lovemaking.
- Shifting from goal orientation to experience orientation.
- How to choose from a wide range of lovemaking roles.
- How to lose yourself in Tantric lovemaking and then find your center again so you don't become too enmeshed or dependent.
- The difference between force and power in sex play.
- How to use role play, costumes, love names and identities, and other dramatic elements deliberately and without embarrassment.
- Tantric sex as meditation, spiritual awakening, exploration, celebration, theatre, and even dance if you like. There are no rules and musts. You'll create your own.
- Sex talk that really enhances your Tantric lovemaking.
- Learning to feel more deeply for more pleasure.
- Fun things to try, or not--there aren't any rules or musts in the Divine Openings Tantra online retreat.
- How every person is different, and how to find their unique wants.
- What are your partner's primary and secondary love senses, and what are yours?
- How men can get over performance pressure, pride, and "I already know all about this," and begin to be present in the moment, a prime element ofTantric sex.
- How women can get over how they look, shame, history, or any issue, and make Tantric love openly and freely, beyond old issues and pain.
- Ways all sexes can move beyond issues like unworthiness, numbness, and inhibitions, and open the heart, for greater ability to give and receive.
- Developing a Feedback Loop to be a spectacular Tantric lover.
- Techniques you might discover you love, and others that simply aren't for you.
- Chanting your way to ecstatic Tantric states.
- Use of music to deepen your ecstasy.
- The beauty of age and how to make love at any age you imagine yourself to be--as well as your age right now.
- The power and importance of self-love and how to gain it.
- The art of self-pleasuring--for its own sake and as a means to enhance Tantric lovemaking with your Beloved.
- Tantra as a sexual feast--approached with relaxed and open joy.
- How to intentionally transform animal urges into Divine Tantric communion.
- How to be sexily selfish.
- How to do a lap dance or exotic seduction.
- Lubrication, and what it indicates.
- Using lubrication, natural and otherwise.
- Knowing God through Tantric sex.
- Sexual communion as "church".
- Setting the scene for worship.
- Adoring the Goddess in her.
- Adoring the God in him.
- Rituals and Tantric activities that range from the sublime to the silly and everything in between.
- Tantric orgasmic stillness, bliss without doing.
- Connecting sexually with only energy and intention, even at long distances.
- Ebb and flow of sexual desire, and how to roll with it.
- Dealing with "issues" that do come up.
- How to be done with "issues" so your sex life becomes pure play, pleasure, connection, and Tantric creative self expression.
- Reigniting sexuality and rejuvenating a relationship.
- Opening the heart for deeper communion.
- Realizing there's no right or wrong way; it's about your enjoyment and creativity.
- We continually add things to the course.
"I have been reading Lola's book, Things Are Going Great In My Absence now going on two years. It has helped me change life in a smooth, non damaging way for all involved. I have had almost a year to myself and recently have been thinking "feeling" that I want to attract the other that is on a similar path as myself (unlike before!) Then I saw this online retreat!! Perfect~ of course~I am excited about it all. THANKS LOLA, I have never met anyone that carries the divine energies so strongly! I must say, some days my Large Self seems to spread out across the land! (smile)" Blessings, Christine in Oregon
Start enjoying now.
With Divine Openings, the spiritual awakenings happened for most people relatively fast, so I asked myself what was next. I quickly saw a need to shift the focus from seeking to living, because their seeking was over so fast! My job then became the blessed one of offering new and exciting ways to enjoy this expanded life once spiritual enlightenment was well underway. What fun! After Divine Openings Level 1, I developed the Level 2 Online Course, which is all about joy and pure expansion. Then on to Jumping The Matrix, which is about creating farther beyond normal reality.
Then I created this Tantra online course, purely for fun and creative expression. I already had vast experience with people feeling the effects of Divine Openings energies from long distances, independent of space or time, and getting massive life transformation just from taking my online courses, without ever seeing me or talking to me. Things Are Going Great In My Absence indeed!
So I use that same principle in this Tantric online course--I've embedded powerful spiritual and Tantric energies and intentions into this Tantra online course too. Due to my intense focus on Tantra, I am so powerfully radiating these Tantric energies these days that after my 5 Day Silent Retreats, which have nothing to do with sex and never even mention sex, participants are going home to find their previously stale marriages have blossomed, and they're making juicy Tantric love, or single people are attracting juicy new loves.
You find juicy new ways to enjoy life!
Many of you who've already read Things Are Going Great In My Absence, and have done some Divine Openings are now "beyond issues, problems, and suffering" and have a big head start on having a fantastic Tantric experience through this online course. Divine Openings has prepared you (or will prepare you as you read the book) to get the benefit of this Tantric online course very quickly, to dive in and enjoy it, and to let go and live it in a way that might be challenging for others without the Grace of Divine Openings. Read that book and get that advantage for yourself.
If there are still some issues that need addressing with your partner, in you, or in your dating life, or lack of dates, don't worry, reading or rereading Things Are Going Great In My Absence will continue to help you resolve any remaining issues in your relationship, as you take this course. This retreat begins with how you relate and talk outside the bedroom, because that affects how much joy and pleasure you experience in the bedroom.
So here we go! If you know me from Divine Openings, you know this won't be dry Tantric techniques and theories. It will be practical, juicy, and alive with Tantric energy you can feel coming off the computer screen and coursing through your body.
Yes, there are unique Tantric energy frequencies embedded in these pages and in the art. They do 90% of the work for you. Just soak it up. This is ecstatic Tantric play, not work, the homework will be the most fun you've ever had, and the experiences will be the deepest you've ever dived into. We'll give you things you can do here and now, and that work. You'll experience Divinity in this body, through this body, and through your partner.
This scene is from our living room, which is set up a lot like a very comfortable, livable temple. We find ways to consciously make our environment sensual.
My partner Russell and I share a philosophy of life: that living life is an art. It encompasses work, creativity, food, travel, play, how we dress, our self expression, our home spaces, how we live our days, as well as lovemaking. We are not content to simply trudge through it unconsciously, but prefer to make each slice of it as rich, fulfilling, and exciting as possible.
If wearing something special will add a bit of expressiveness to our evening, we'll wear it. Russell even let me put Johnny Depp eye makeup on him one night, and he looked hot! Our emails to each other are works of art. (He's a published author of thirty years.) Building a bonfire in the yard and lying there on thick comforters and pillows watching the clouds race across the full moon is more appealing to us than watching television, although curling up together with a good movie is nice at times.
Our concept of Tantra is "making an intentional art out of making love." To make it as special, magical, deep, sensual, intense, loving, caring, appreciative, and ecstatic as possible, whether it's simple and spontaneous, or planned and ritualistic. It's the antithesis of routine, unconscious, unimaginative sex. It's beyond just doing what the animals do, although there's certainly room for that too. Don't be intimated by talk of church, theatre, ritual, or celebration when it comes to sex. You don't have to try anything you don't feel comfortable with or wouldn't enjoy. But sometimes you don't know till you try!
You'll begin with easy things, like that basic element of Tantra-- gazing soulfully into your lover's eyes as you sit in this powerful field of resonance and let it lift you up. It's that easy.
Tantra is intentional play, intentional ritual, a way of approaching sexuality as something so profound that it deserves as much careful attention as any other special endeavor. The goal of Tantra is communion with your lover in Divinely inspired ways. In fact, for many, Tantra is the truest and most open path to the Divine.
Our definition of Tantra is unique. Forget the other definitions of Tantra you might already know for this retreat. And we won't force our definition on you. There are more definitions and systems of Tantra out there than you can count, they're all fine, and this is different. Some systems are religious, some are esoteric and complicated, some are weird to us. As everything Russell and I create is unique, so is this course. As you would expect, it is grounded and practical, and yet deep, mystical, and profound. It is explicit, yet tasteful in the presentation, allowing you a kind of intimacy.
is sexual bliss,
and Divine ecstasy.
Wikipedia says, "Despite reluctance to support a rigorous definition of Tantra, David Gordon White offers the following definition: Tantra is that Asian body of beliefs and practices which, working from the principle that the universe we experience is nothing other than the concrete manifestation of the divine energy of the Godhead that creates and maintains that universe, seeks to ritually appropriate and channel that energy, within the human microcosm in creative and emancipatory ways."
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To learn more about the course, Lola and Russell, and about our Tantric background and philosophy.