"When you make what you think is a "wrong turn", your Inner Guidance System just recalculates your route, so there are no irreparable wrong turns. There are actually no wrong turns at all." Lola Jones
How Can I Make A Difference For Others?
How Can I Make A Difference For Others?
.... BY Minding My OWN Business.
by Lola Jones
Our families, friends, and associates are often the ones we want most to help, but find it
to be the hardest. I found that rather than trying to teach, inspire,
or "help" them, that just loving them, listening, and being my Large
Self worked wonders.
In other words, we need to mind our own business.
Who we are speaks so much louder than what we say.
Drop a hint here and there about what you're learning, and some will
get curious, ask questions, or even eventually
come on the journey with you.
If they don't spark, let it go, and love, love, love them.
Isn't that the idea anyway?
To be loving?
Don't say things you know they will reject.
Say things they can relate to and agree with to build bridges.
If we can't love 'em and appreciate them as they are, therein lies
the problem. They can feel the judgment halfway around the world.
They know we think something's wrong with them.
That doesn't feel good, to either person.
Can you feel it?
It's the opposite of unconditional love.
My definition of unconditional love is
"I will be happy no matter what you are doing or not doing."
Now of course, getting up to love on the Altimeter is a process, so go easy on
yourself till you're there. Appreciation is the same frequency, and it's easier to do,
so think of one thing to appreciate about them, and tell them.
Suddenly you get smarter, and easier to follow.
The best test: When you do Divine Openings or some other spiritual
path that actually works, and you are LIVING IT rather than just talking about it,
people around you begin to transform very quickly without your doing anything.
If they're not becoming more their Large Selves in your presence,
don't work harder on them -- go back to who you're being.
With Divine Openings, people around you shift, often in a matter of weeks,
when you're being it. It takes no effort on your part. You don't have to say a word. It's best if
you do absolutely nothing and just let go.
They may even zoom "beyond" where you are.... an interesting
phenomenon that I talk more about in Level One.
You know that your vibration affects the collective consciousness
-- not so much by what you do, as by how you vibrate, by what is in
your heart and body.
Are you vibrating love and freedom, security and bliss?
By achieving your own liberation you will cause many to rise in
vibration, without doing a thing. If you focus too much on others,
you get distracted from what counts -- YOUR vibration.
Your family is your most immediate collective. You'll see them
affected first. Next is your community and your co-workers.
Start at home and at work. When you are able to love them
unconditionally, then you can successfully step up to larger stuff.
Divine Openings helps people get there quite easily.
All you have to do is commit, relax, listen within, let go,
and The Divine does the heavy lifting.
Then your enlightenment quite effortlessly spreads out in
concentric rings from you.
Love,
Lola
Level 1 Online Retreat Course With Book
Live 5 Day Retreat
Begin With Just The Book
www.DivineOpenings.com
.... BY Minding My OWN Business.
by Lola Jones
Our families, friends, and associates are often the ones we want most to help, but find it
to be the hardest. I found that rather than trying to teach, inspire,
or "help" them, that just loving them, listening, and being my Large
Self worked wonders.
In other words, we need to mind our own business.
Who we are speaks so much louder than what we say.
Drop a hint here and there about what you're learning, and some will
get curious, ask questions, or even eventually
come on the journey with you.
If they don't spark, let it go, and love, love, love them.
Isn't that the idea anyway?
To be loving?
Don't say things you know they will reject.
Say things they can relate to and agree with to build bridges.
If we can't love 'em and appreciate them as they are, therein lies
the problem. They can feel the judgment halfway around the world.
They know we think something's wrong with them.
That doesn't feel good, to either person.
Can you feel it?
It's the opposite of unconditional love.
My definition of unconditional love is
"I will be happy no matter what you are doing or not doing."
Now of course, getting up to love on the Altimeter is a process, so go easy on
yourself till you're there. Appreciation is the same frequency, and it's easier to do,
so think of one thing to appreciate about them, and tell them.
Suddenly you get smarter, and easier to follow.
The best test: When you do Divine Openings or some other spiritual
path that actually works, and you are LIVING IT rather than just talking about it,
people around you begin to transform very quickly without your doing anything.
If they're not becoming more their Large Selves in your presence,
don't work harder on them -- go back to who you're being.
With Divine Openings, people around you shift, often in a matter of weeks,
when you're being it. It takes no effort on your part. You don't have to say a word. It's best if
you do absolutely nothing and just let go.
They may even zoom "beyond" where you are.... an interesting
phenomenon that I talk more about in Level One.
You know that your vibration affects the collective consciousness
-- not so much by what you do, as by how you vibrate, by what is in
your heart and body.
Are you vibrating love and freedom, security and bliss?
By achieving your own liberation you will cause many to rise in
vibration, without doing a thing. If you focus too much on others,
you get distracted from what counts -- YOUR vibration.
Your family is your most immediate collective. You'll see them
affected first. Next is your community and your co-workers.
Start at home and at work. When you are able to love them
unconditionally, then you can successfully step up to larger stuff.
Divine Openings helps people get there quite easily.
All you have to do is commit, relax, listen within, let go,
and The Divine does the heavy lifting.
Then your enlightenment quite effortlessly spreads out in
concentric rings from you.
Love,
Lola
Level 1 Online Retreat Course With Book
Live 5 Day Retreat
Begin With Just The Book
www.DivineOpenings.com
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Lola Jones is a conduit for Pure Divine Grace/Light/Intelligence. You can learn to do what she does: resolve issues, initiate enlightenment, and transform lives. 
Things can be simple
"By minding my own business."
Simple. brilliant. maybe not that easy some days...but true regardless, in my experience.
Aloha and mahalo Crystal and Lola,
Rox
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that's it
Thank you so much.
Freedom at last
I always feel uplifted everytime I visit this site. Yes Lola and Crystal , there are times I dip down although just for a short time but I feel so uneasy. life has change so much for me. I'm looking forward for the Level 2 on line course, Jumping the matrix and the five day intensive. All these are coming soon. It will surely come.Thank you so much for making that difference in my life and in my family.Take care and god bless!