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holding vibration for someone??

Hi everyone! Lola speaks of holding the vibration for people until they can do it for themselves. I am paraphrasing what I hear on audios. My question is can I do the same? I am in such a wonderful place and.I want to help my son who is young but having difficulty with something, hold his vibrations until he figures it out. Any thoughts? Sorry for the typos. My phone won't let me correct.them. thanks!
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thank you!

Thank you both for your words. Crystal, I laughed out loud. We can see everyone else's issues better than we can see our own! My son was experiencing.bullying at school. After it.happened in different circumstances by different kids, I was so upset I asked a friend for advice when the school kept dropping the ball. Her comment was "some kids are always targets" I thought, well I'm going.to fix that story right now. I began envisioning my son happy and safe and free from the negative targets. It worked!! The kids just left.him alone. And 1 apologized and they have worked on school projects together. I wasn't going with that old.story. I have since talked to my son about how in general he can create his own life...in 8yo terms but still, he's getting it. Funny thing is, as Lola said I've been at this a long time and ride pretty high most of the time but this had me so worked up (momma bear's claws came out) my vibration dropped, I lost some ground, and I became physically really ill which I'm still recovering from (refer to my new forum post). I have to learn to trust that not only do things.go well in MY absence in MY life, they can go well for the people I love too. I beat myself up a lot these last 2 months looking backwards. Last nights call (thank you dear Lola for reading my email about finding my passion during.the call) really stopped me in my tracks. How easy it it to let ourselves get sucked back in! I still don't feel great.physically today but my attitude, spirits, outlook and overall persona feels totally different. I'm now looking forward and seeing things differently. I had to stop myself only.once today when the guilt crept in. I dove in. End of story. Lola, you recently wrote somewhere how you got off balance during your move and even had tests run. That actually helped me tremendously. I had an understanding finally of how things can go haywire and come back into balance. I now need to know how to come back into balance when I'm not feeling my best. Thank you for reading.

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Beautiful support is coming from the Divine Openings Givers on the Forum! I come to the Forum infrequently to see what's going on, and I'm always warmed and inspired by what the Givers are saying to members.

Since others who are not in as high in their vibration as Nicole will read this (Nicole's been at this for a while) I'll add two things:

1. If you're not as high and steady as Nicole, get yourself up there first before trying to hold a vibration for someone else. Crystal knew YOU could do it, Nicole, and I do too.

Too often people get too wrapped up in the suffering of others, want to avoid their OWN feelings, and instead they try to fix others to avoid their own feelings, and that never works.

Same for peace meditators--they can only meditate for peace effectively if they have peace in their own heart. If a person is focused on the strife in the world or has strife at home, then that person can't possibly hold a field of resonance for peace.

2. Nicole knows this, but for the newer people: stay unattached to the outcome. Let The Divine do the heavy lifting. Be at peace now.

Good for you, Nicole, that you're now in a place to easily help others.

Love,
Lola

Of course!


Hello Nicole!

Of course you can hold vibration for others!

It is so easy for us to see clearly in other peoples lives. haha!
 
I love that juicing up the visions I hold for others, juices my OWN life!
It's so fun to see it for your loved ones and then realize that by doing it for them you're doing it for yourself.

Here goes!

Yes, you may be struggling at the moment, but I see very clearly, you coming out on the other side.

I can see people helping you, situations shifting, opportunities opening up.
I see you softening and being so kind, loving and soothing to yourself.
I see you letting go of what your mind says.
I see your mind softening.  I see your heart opening.
I see your pipes expanding.  I see you releasing resistance.
I see you dancing and laughing with joy at the miraculous way the universe has given you what you wanted.
I see your absolute and utter alighnment.  I see you letting it all in!

See it.  Feel good about it.
Rejoice in the joy of others... in the joy you can see and feel in them that they can't necessarily see for themselves.

Hold those visions, relax and let your heart soar... for them and for you.

I hold this vision for all of you!!
I love you so much.
XOXO
Crystal
www.DivineOpenings.com/Crystal